Sex Life Need A Boost? Use Technology to Jump Start Your Bedroom

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Sex, like anything else, occasionally needs a jumpstart. The busy work week, family, keeping up with expenses; all these factors and place intimacy lower and lower in our priorities. Once allowed to languish, sexual activity is one of the most difficult areas of a relationship to reinvigorate, let alone return to high levels of excitement and passion. In our own marriage, after raising a son, working to pay a modest mortgage, and dealing with caring for a parent suffering with Alzheimer’s disease, it’s a wonder we manage to do the deed at all. Leave it to ordinary technology to provide an assist to our low libidos and, while not solving the underlying issues behind our sexual slowdown, at least keep things interesting… Continue reading

  

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Finding the Courage to Reveal a Fetish

By Jillian Keenan

DAVID doesn’t remember this conversation, but I won’t forget.

“Nice belt,” I said, gesturing to the red canvas belt around his waist.

We had met a few weeks earlier through a Stanford student group. He was quiet and broad-shouldered. I liked him right away.

“I have a leather one, too,” he replied, smiling.

Please click to continue reading the rest of the article at the NY Times…

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True Sex Stories From Fleshbot.com – Home

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“He takes the head of his cock, and rubs it all over my pussy. Then he tells me to turn around, and pushes my face against the mirror. My pussy is wetter than ever…”

I was recently away from home for 8 days. I had a fabulous time, saw places I have always wanted to, met incredibly interesting people. I absolutely adored my trip, but was so so ready to come home. Continue reading

  

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A Surprising Weekend Inside the Touchy-Feely World of Polyamory by Alex Mar

We start our post-July 4th week off with an innovative article from Nerve on polyamory:

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I arrive at the Embassy Suites at Philadelphia International and drag my roller bag through the ground floor, well-appointed for an airport hotel, with a five-story-high skylight ceiling and not one but two large rock pools surrounded with jumbo ferns. The website goes so far as to call the atrium “a tropical paradise,” albeit a wall-to-wall carpeted one — which, if you use your imagination, makes it the perfect setting for the next 36 hours. I, along with 200-plus others, have decided to spend my weekend learning about consensual non-monogamy or love with multiple partners. In other words, polyamory. This is one of a handful of conferences and retreats organized each year by Loving More, a nonprofit that’s been promoting “openly and deeply loving more than one person at a time” for over 27 years.

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Mark Manson: Love Is Not Enough

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In 1967, John Lennon wrote a song called, “All You Need is Love.” He also beat both of his wives, abandoned one of his children, verbally abused his gay Jewish manager with homophobic and anti-semitic slurs, and once had a camera crew film him lying naked in his bed for an entire day.

Thirty-five years later, Trent Reznor from Nine Inch Nails wrote a song called “Love is Not Enough.” Reznor, despite being famous for his shocking stage performances and his grotesque and disturbing videos, abstained from all drugs and alcohol, married one woman, had two children with her, and then cancelled entire albums and tours so that he could stay home and be a good husband and father.

One of these two men had a clear and realistic understanding of love. One of them did not. One of these men idealized love as the solution to all of his problems. One of them did not. One of these men was probably a narcissistic asshole. One of them was not.

Click here to continue reading this article on Mark Manson’s blog.

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Researchers Find Association Between Porn Viewing And Less Grey Matter In The Brain

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By Justine Alford

Researchers from the Max Planck Institute for Human Development in Berlin have published a study in the journal JAMA Psychiatry which found that hours spent watching pornography was associated with differences in gray matter volume in a particular region of the brain. Continue reading

  

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