Monthly Archives: November 2013

Psychology Today: Secrets of Loving Cunnilingus


By Michael Castleman

The myth is that men don’t enjoy providing women with oral sex. Actually, many (most?) love it. For many men, this special gift feels deeply intimate and very satisfying. In addition, women are much more likely to have orgasms from oral than intercourse. Cunnilingus is not difficult, but some men are unschooled in the fine points. Here’s how to boost her pleasure and your self-confidence. Continue reading’s True Sex Stories: The Drive

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The cab was beautiful. Sarah had told me the story while we ate: Her father had bought the truck so they could drive together, but a stroke had kept him from being able to stay on the road. Now Sara and Bruce were a long-haul team in a rig most young drivers would never have been able to afford. As I hauled myself up the two steps behind Sara, I was amazed by the color-coordinated interior. Orange and black seats. Tufted orange leather upholstery on the ceiling. Retro wood-grain trim. It was gorgeous. Continue reading

Modern life ‘turning people off sex’

Couple kissing in bed

More than 15,000 people were polled about their sex lives…

once-a-decade poll of 15,000 Britons found those aged 16-44 were having sex fewer than five times a month.

The figure compared with more than six times a month on the last two occasions when the official National Survey of Sexual Attitudes and Lifestyles was carried out, in 1990-91 and 1999-2001.



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Brace yourself, because we’re about to get all high school health class over here. Call it what you like, but everyone’s wondered at one point or another what’s going on with semen — and maybe even what happens when we consume it. Is semen high in calories? Does a teaspoon of the gooey stuff provide our muscles with extra protein? Is it a nutritional sinkhole or a secret superfood? For better or worse, we’re getting to the sticky, icky bottom of this eternal mystery. Continue reading The Benefits of Sleeping Naked


Not everyone feels comfortable sleeping naked, but it is important to understand the benefits of sleeping naked when it comes to not only your love life, but also your health and well-being. Sleeping naked can increase feel-good hormones in the brain, strengthen emotional ties and heighten both desire and intimacy between you and your partner. The following are just some of the benefits of sleeping naked: Continue reading

Q&A: The Surprising Phenomenon of Exercise-Induced Orgasms (via Popular Science)

A first-person coregasm testimonial

According to a new study by sex researchers at the Indiana University, women having orgasms during exercise is a real phenomenon. As far as the researchers know, this is the first study that deals directly with exercise-induced orgasms (EIO), known colloquially as “coregasms” because they tend to occur during core-strengthening workouts, like sit-ups and crunches. Coregasms began making the rounds on the internet and in women’s magazines back in 2007, when an editor at Men’s Health blogged about them. But as far back as 1953, a study by pioneering sexologist Alfred Kinsey found that 5 percent of women experienced orgasms during exercise, and that figure was likely low because the researchers hadn’t asked about EIOs specifically. Continue reading

Must Read: How to Have Sex With Me One Time


Don’t tell me I’m beautiful. I’m here, aren’t I? Like, I’m here. I’m doing this and I have a reason…somewhere. I know you’re supposed to think I’m beautiful, and I know I’m supposed to think so too, for now. Your mother probably had you believe that no girl really wants to have sex, and thus you think you have to talk her into it. You have to make her feel special. But see, I’m not your mother’s daughter. At least I hope not. Gross.

And what does it mean, beautiful? I guess a lot of girls are beautiful when it’s dark and their heads are all the way down there, aren’t they? Aren’t they all? Continue reading

Sexy Laugh of the Day…


Our friend went to the doctor’s office the other day and found out his new doctor was a young female; drop-dead gorgeous, too. He was embarrassed, but she said, “Don’t worry, I’m a professional. I have seen it all before. Just tell me what’s wrong and I will check it out.” He said, “My wife thinks my dick tastes funny.”

Product Review: Gear Essentials Stainless Steel Ball Weights

Synopsis: A stainless steel weight designed to stretch the scrotum.Freddy’s Review: I must admit, if someone had told me ten years ago that I’d be trying sex toys for a living, I’d have laughed hysterically and brushed him off. However, here I am, doing just that; hunting down and discovering new ways to spin old habits and continually pushing the envelope in the interest of “research” to enhance the spicy side of my marriage to Eddy. And while most products fail to make it to this site, even the crappy ones have managed to get us from first to home on most occasions (before they find their way to the trash). Any reason to be intimate is positive, we figure, so through the boxes of toys we continually dig, hoping to find a nugget amidst the sediment, so to speak. Continue reading