Monthly Archives: March 2014

Want to Buy a Harness? Read This First


By Queerie Bradshaw, March 6, 2014

Takeaway: Asking yourself a few simple before buying a harness can make for happier humping.

A couple years ago, I got a request for an advice piece on how to choose a harness for strap-on sex. I didn’t have to do much research before it became apparent that a 500-word blog post was not going to be enough to encompass all that goes into this important sexual tool.

So, two years, hundreds of harnesses and multiple orgasms later, Queerie Bradshaw’s Guide to Choosing a Harness is finally live (and free to download by clicking here). asked me to share some of the top things I learned from making this guide, so here they are. Continue reading