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What Happened When I Got Tired of Making Excuses and Said ‘Yes’ to Sex

By Pam Costa

A wise man once gave me advice at a wedding that the days would be long, but the years would be short. Indeed, I have found over the last 20 years of my relationship that it’s easy to get overwhelmed by the minutia that is our daily life… the schedule planning and kid shuttling, the working and working out, the cooking and cleaning. And in the midst of that overwhelm, it’s so easy to say “No” to the things that would really nourish our souls, the things that we’ll remember at the end of the year when we realize how quickly it has gone by.

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Why The New Sex Drive Pill For Women Is Not The ‘Female Viagra’


Both drugs treat sexual issues, but that’s where the similarities end.

News editor, The Huffington Post

The Food and Drug Administration has approved the first prescription drug aimed at boosting women’s libido, but don’t go calling the new pink pill the “female Viagra.” Continue reading

The Struggle to Stay Sexy In Marriage

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By Freddy and Eddy

No matter how young or old, fit or fat, stressed out or carefree, a couple’s sex life will inevitably suffer a downturn. The arrival of kids, changes in jobs and work hours, unexpected crisis, or just plain lack of chemistry can conspire to turn the bedroom into the bored-room and leave us struggling to climb back into some semblance of passion – and that’s for strong relationships. Many couples we know simply give up and either divorce or resign themselves to finding other ways to connect that don’t require the effort of sex. Continue reading

Product Review: Masque Sexual Flavors Oral Sex Enhancement Strips

masquestripsSummary: Dissolve able strips that neutralize the flavor of intimate fluids to enhance the acts of fellatio (blow jobs) and cunnilingus (eating pussy).

Our Review: We’ve encountered so many products purporting to improve oral sex that it was tempting to dismiss this latest attempt as nothing more than, well, more of the same. Continue reading

Woman’s Day: Yoga Poses That Improve Your Sex Life

Spend time on the mat in order to prime your mind and body for romance

By Jill Provost

Read more: Yoga Poses for Better Sex – Yoga Poses That Improve Sex – Woman’s Day

Has your love life gone from sizzle to fizzle? You don’t have to memorize the Kama Sutra to spice things up between the sheets. In fact, it’s the positions you assume outside the bedroom that could really heat things up. According to research in The Journal of Sexual Medicine, sexually dissatisfied women who took up yoga and practiced mindfulness techniques reported higher levels of arousal and desire, and better orgasms. To reap similar benefits, perform the 10 poses below at least three times a week, spending a minute or so in each position. If this is your first time practicing yoga, don’t worry; we’ve linked each pose to a video tutorial so you can learn them at your own pace.

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16 Ways He Blew His Marriage, And 16 Reasons Why He’ll (Probably) Blow His Next One

By Freddy and Eddy


This article appeared on Single Dad Laughing, a popular blog we follow, and then exploded in popularity over the internet within hours of its initial posting. The advice, though mostly hokey and obvious, is nevertheless coming from a place of sincerity, even if the author is someone who, by his own admission, has failed twice at marriage. And though we don’t doubt he meant well, a more thoughtful look beyond the fluffy, feel-good bullet points, Mr. Pearce’s reflections lead us to believe if he follows his own advice, without a bit of deeper introspection, he’ll probably fail a third time. So, with a quarter century worth of experience in marriage under our collective belt, here’s a point-by-point analysis of his 16 mea culpas (appearing in italics), and our takes on why you should not follow most – if not all – of them. And Dan, here’s hoping your “3rd time’s a charm” and we wish you much success in your future relationships.


When I first dated the woman I ended up marrying, I always held her hand. In the car. While walking. At meals. At movies. It didn’t matter where. Over time, I stopped. I made up excuses like my hand was too hot or it made me sweat or I wasn’t comfortable with it in public. Truth was, I stopped holding hands because I stopped wanting to put in the effort to be close to my wife. No other reason.
IF I COULD HAVE A DO-OVER: I’d hold her hand in the car. I’d hold her hand on a star. I’d hold her hand in a box. I’d hold her hand with a fox. And I’d hold her hand everywhere else, too, even when we didn’t particularly like each other for the moment.
BONUS! When you hold hands in the winter, they don’t get cold. True story.

Our Take: Holding hands is nice, in fact we ourselves hold hands – a lot, But to say that you stopped holding hands because “I stopped wanting to put in the effort,” is a lazy man’s way of diagnosing a deeper problem. It’s not effort that stops people from holding hands (in fact, holding hands actually takes no effort), but lack of love and desire for the physical connection that comes from doing so. You mentally checked out of your marriage and this probably showed up in many ways beyond clasping hands. The important facet of your elimination of this basic affection is that it took place over time and you did nothing to stop it from degrading along with the rest of your marriage.

Better Advice: Never stop touching each other and/or showing affection as often as possible in every way you can. Hold hands, rub shoulders, bump rumps together, stroke, caress, cop a feel, and touch every chance you get. We are beings who thrive on energy – especially physical – and science demonstrates that our heart rates increase and our moods soar when involved in touching each other. Though we’re now in our midlife period of our union, we continue to gross everyone out with our non-stop affection.

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Product Review: Eroscillator Ultra Soft Finger Attachment


Synopsis: The ultra soft finger attachment is a pillow foam tip, encased in silicone, that works with the Eroscillator line of oscillating stimulation products.

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Sex Toy Product Review: Ovo K2 Rabbit Style Vibrator

ovok2Synopsis: A small, low-priced, yet powerful sex toy that puts more expensive rivals (Lelo, are you listening?) to shame.

Our Review: After years of trying virtually every type of sex toy ever invented, and in all price ranges, styles, colors, and material compositions, we’ve lately tried to turn our attention toward finding bargains in these unsettled economic times, and no company we’ve come across embodies orgasms-on-the-cheap quite like German manufacturer Ovo. We’ve written reviews of two of their vibrators – the T1 and D1 – and placed our order for their medium sized rabbit device, following their eschewing of catchy product names and simply titled the K2. Could this Lelo Ina knockoff deliver similar orgasms at less than half the cost?

The answer to that question would be an emphatic YES, but we’ll get to that in a moment. The Ovo K2 rabbit vibrator is a medium sized device, approximately 10″ in total length, with an insert able length of just over 5″. The rabbit “ear” protrudes outward about 2.5″ and can be flexed into just about perpendicular from the toy. There is one motor located inside the silicone shaft, which is controlled via four buttons on its base/housing, and a snug end cap twists off to reveal the battery compartment (the K2 takes two AAA batteries). The K2 has three speed settings and another five programming modes, enabling a variety of different options and, as a bonus, is waterproof for shower or bath play. The packaging is top notch as with all of their other toys, with the K2 set neatly inside a sturdy and elegantly designed box with the product’s picture adorning the front. How they manage to produce such a lovely presentation for under $50.00 is almost inconceivable. As an aside, Ovo guarantees their product for FIFTEEN YEARS, though we are a bit unclear as to how one goes about returning a defective item to Germany as suggested on their website.

Once put into use the Ovo performed every bit up to standards set by products costing double its price. The K2 produced three ejaculations (yes, yes, we know, Eddy is a master of this, but still…) in short order and its size made for an easy clitoral addition when engaging in intercourse. We took it into the shower for some water play and dared to actually submerge it (which the instructions specifically warn against, but we did it anyway) and the K2 took on no water – none – in its battery compartment (whew!). Just for kicks, we dusted off our Lelo Ina, obviously an inspiration for the K2, and compared them side by side. Though the Ina boasts a second motor and a few more programming options, the results were close in terms of effectiveness. The Ovo K2 manages plenty of stimulation despite the absence of a second power plant and its just as quiet. In terms of value, we give the nod to the $100.00 less expensive Ovo.

In summation, we are going to go ahead and order the rest of the Ovo lineup and replace some of our older, redundant toys. The K2 is an awesome bargain and great compliment to any couples toy arsenal, whether beginner or advanced or somewhere in between.

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Product Review: Vibratex Thumbelina Rabbit Vibrator

Synopsis: A rabbit-style vibe with g-spot tip.

Our Review: There are a lot of adult toys out there, yet it is very rare when you come a cross a toy that fits your body like a glove.  And I found one just perfectly to match my needs –Thumbelina.

The Thumbelina is from the Vibratex family.  It is 5 ½ inches tall with 4 ½ inches being insertable. The main tip of the head angled down to rub under the cervix while the top of the head is angled to rub the G-spot area. Along the shaft below the head there are nubs to enhance the feeling as it is moved in and out.  Included is a rabbit-style clitoral stimulator that has a long protrusion on top which moves very fast in a side to side motion, while below it has a grouping of smaller nubs to rub against the body.  It is made with elastomer, which is porous yet doesn’t produce any by-product such as phthalates.  It takes 4 AAA batteries to provide for all the moves and grooves it produces.

When I tried the Thumbelina, I had hopes that it would be a fun toy since I had so much fun with another one of their vibes called the Little Kiss, which was on the more petite size.  And when I say petite I mean the shorter distance between the top of the vibe and the clitoral extension.  We as women are all built differently, so the quest is to find a toy, whether it be a dildo or vibrator that actually fits our individual body. So, petite doesn’t mean the length or girth when I describe it.  I’m sure that a heavy breathe has fallen on most men reading this review! 

So, when I first inserted the Thumbelina, the motion was the normal circular movement.  I concentrated putting the pressure of the angled head against my G-spot area which felt great.  Then as I turned on the rabbit-part and laid it against my clitoris I basically just came hard and fast with the added bonus of female ejaculation.  I came so fast that I literally jumped out of bed looking for a towel before my bed became soaking wet!  Even after I laid towels down to continue my play-time, I definitely enjoyed multiple orgasms thereafter. 

I chose to test the Thumbelina since I was looking for a more petite size vibrator in comparison to the Little Kiss that Vibratex also manufactures.  It caught my eye since it was made out of elastomer rather than vinyl.  You can imagine the sheer joy I have found with my new toy, whether for my alone time or shared time with Freddy.

Freddy Says: Yeah, what she said!

Interested in purchasing a Thumbelina? Click here to visit our online store or here to visit Vibratex for additional outlets.