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Sex and Fitness: Good Health = Great Sex

Finding your sex life ain’t what it used to be? Maybe you need to hit the gym…

From Psychology Today…

marieLeg cramps, problems catching your breath, overall fatigue, dehydration – all of these things can happen during sex. On top of these issues, you might suddenly in the midst of passion, think of all of your woobly bits – the parts of your body you dislike. Maybe, to make matters even worse, you realize the position you are in and your partner’s perspective of your body. “Ugh!” you sigh.

Sex can be physically tiring, just like any other physical activity, particularly if it’s sustained for a long duration. With the spring around the corner, and people’s thoughts turn to love (and lust), now is a good time to think about exercise. The link between physical fitness and sex is an interestingĀ one, and one that should not be underestimated.

Getting enough sleep, eating right and reducing stress are all important for having a satisfying sex life, but they are also really obvious and talked about elsewhere at length. What is less discussed is the importance of getting exercise before you end up in bed with your special someone.

Exercise that is performed over a sustained time leads to a so-called “runner’s high,” caused by the release of endorphins. These endorphins are stimulating, and as well as causing us to feel great, they stimulate the release of sex hormones. The added bonus is that exercise causes us to feel better. It elevates our mood and creates a feeling of calmness (albeit after we have had a chance to cool off and relax). The lowering of heart rate, improved digestion, lowered blood pressure and lowered stress hormone levels combine with the feelings of well being caused by the endorphins. Add to that an increase of another hormone, oxytocin, and the result is a relaxed, content, person.

lcgallery4exampleFor women, the link between exercise and sex has been explored by Cindy Meston and her colleagues. Their results indicate that working out – albeit vigorously – primes women’s bodies for sexual activity. It is not simply that exercise increases genital blood flow or makes women sexually aroused. Instead, there seems to be something, as of yet unidentified, that prepares women’s bodies. After working out, she found that women’s bodies respond faster and more intensely to sexual content (such as an erotic film). Her findings are exciting because they counter the long held belief that relaxation is necessary for a good sexual experience, and assumption that might be due to the link between anxiety and erectile problems for men. I should mention that so far these effects have been documented immediately after exercise and seem to diminish quickly- indeed, they seem to be the strongest 15 minutes after exercise and fade fast.

As for men, sexual experiences also benefit from exercise. White and colleagues (1990) had two groups of men, whose average age was 48 years, all of whom were sedentary but healthy at the start of the study. One group engaged in walking, while the other in aerobic exercise. The latter group reported higher levels of sexual intimacy, more satisfying orgasms, and more reliable sexual functioning. Thus, men who are physically inactive and then aerobically exercise three or four days a week, regularly, for at least an hour at a time, soon report more sex and better sex. However, all men experienced an improvement, leading the researchers to conclude that enhanced sexuality is directly correlated with their improvement in physical fitness.

Satisfying sex lives isn’t just about the nuts and bolts of biology – it also involves self image. People who exercise often have a positive self body image, which might make them simply enjoy their bodies more, too. Penhollow and Young (2004) found frequency of exercise and physical fitness enhanced attractiveness and increased energy levels. They write that those who exercise are more likely to experience a greater level of satisfaction and a positive perception of self, which may cause them to believe they are more desirable and may perform better sexually

One last thought – sex itself is a physical activity and burns calories and increases fitness. Many factors influence how many calories are spent during sex, but most reports seem to indicate about 85 for a half hour to hour session, which is about the same as bowling (see this link for calorie counts). Unlike bowling, though, sex can also increase self-esteem, cardio-vascular health, emotional intimacy, improve sleeping, and increase immunity!

References:

Penhollow, T. M. & Young, M. (2004). Sexual desirability and sexual performance: Does exercise and fitness really matter? Electronic Journal of Human Sexuality, 7, http://www.ejhs.org/tocv7.html.

White, J., Case, D. A., McWhirter, D., Mattison, A. M. (1990). Enhanced sexual behavior in exercising men. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 19(3), 193-209.

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Sex Positions 101: The Radio Flyer

Type of sex position: Rear entry, standing.

Sex position degree of difficulty: Advanced.

The female should be on a chair with both knees on base. One knee is lifted for male to hold, while other rests on chair. The male will be straddling the leg that is rested on the chair while second leg is held.

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Sex Positions 101: Othello’s Back Groove

Type of sex position: Her on top, reverse.

Sex positions degree of difficulty: Intermediate to advanced.

The female should be in front of the chair and lean forward with her hands on her knees. The male should be on the chair with his hands on the back of the chair and his feet at the corner of the base.

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Sex Positions 101: Plowing the Field

Type of sex position: Standing rear entry.

Sex position degree of difficulty: Advanced.

Start off with the female placing her feet on the base of the chair. She should then place her hands on the ground for support. The male then straddles her body and brings her body close to align with her vagina.

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Sex Positions 101: The Richter Scale

Type of sex position: Her on top.

Sex position degree of difficulty: Intermediate to advanced.

Male should sit on chair with shoulders against the back and butt on end of base. Female can then climb on top and lift both legs onto his shoulders and rest both of her hands on his knees and lean back.

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Sex Positions 101: Riding the Pine

Type of sex position: Her on top?

Sex position degree of difficulty: Extremely advanced!

Male length helps, but can be used for stimulation when penetration isn’t possible. The man lies against the chair with his bottom toward end of base. He lifts his legs as she approaches and enters her.

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Sex Positions 101: The Cuban Cradle

Type of sex position: Missionary.

Sex position degree of difficulty: Intermediate to advanced.

The female should start on her back. The male should be between her legs and place his hands under her body, bringing her close. By having the male lean up and back, the angle of penetration varies.

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Sex Positions 101: Ironing the Cracks

Sex position type: Rear entry (doggy style).

Sex position degree of difficulty: Intermediate.

 

Use a chair or table of some kind to mimic this common position from adult films. The male should kneel behind the female between her knees. Keep her knees together for a tighter thrust!

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Sex Positions 101: Lock and Load (legs out)

Type of sex position: Rear entry.

Sex position degree of difficulty: Intermediate.

The male should start on top as he straddles her legs. As the female rests on her stomach, the male can thrust. By bending his elbows, the male can bring himself closer to his partner to kiss and whisper.

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Sex Positions 101: She Bang

Type of sex position: Her on top – missionary.

Degree of sex position difficulty: Advanced.

The male lays on the ground and brings his knees to his chest. The female comes in between his legs and positions his penis to enter her. As the female draws closer, the male grabs her legs to draw her in.

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